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2nd-May-2012 01:12 pm (UTC)
I just saw that and lol'd heartily. Someone ought to cap it before its deleted.
What a creeper :/
2nd-May-2012 01:29 pm (UTC)
already gone.
2nd-May-2012 02:15 pm (UTC)
LOL he PMed me!

I commented on the post saying "You sound like a real catch. I bet you get ~loads~ of emails." & just now got a message saying "Thanks for your cynicism on the apparently impossible task of finding a lolita gf, so you can like the style and I can't? I find it irritating that I would never suppose to be rude to you jn any way and you decide it's perfectly acceptable to judge me!"

Was it just me or did any of the other commenters get messages too? And should I respond & see what happens?

EDIT: Also the guy's username is mattimeobris in case anyone wants to keep note of it for future reference.

Edited at 2012-05-02 02:16 pm (UTC)
2nd-May-2012 02:28 pm (UTC)
He's just posted again, I can't work out whether it's a good troll or an actual idiot.


Link maker isn't working my bad.
2nd-May-2012 02:34 pm (UTC)
Deleted so here's the cap:
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2nd-May-2012 02:49 pm (UTC)
I'd be scared if I were in Bristol.

There are so many other ways he could have worded this so that people would have helped him, or at least point him to an appropriate dating site. The way he decided to say it and the way he defended himself is super creepy.
2nd-May-2012 03:26 pm (UTC)
Wow that's interesting... just the last week there was a guy who registered on the swedish lolita forum and was the same... said he thought lolita girls was soooo cute and he wanted to meet someone to be friends or to be his girlfriend. While I myself don't really think it's that creepy, it's so awkward.... These guys have such strange notion of how you get a girlfriend. It's about FALLING IN LOVE godammit.
2nd-May-2012 03:46 pm (UTC)
I don't get why people jump right in with 'I want a ____ girlfriend!' and then think that people won't get skeeved out. It's dehumanising to think someone is after you just because you wear a certain kind of clothes, have a certain hair colour, or whatever else it is guys like that place the emphasis on. >_<;

They would do so much better if they just introduced themselves as someone who loves the style and wants to chat to other people who do too.
2nd-May-2012 04:57 pm (UTC)

I am more than my clothes, thank you.

Maybe they think that because a lot of men shy away from women in lolita we're going to jump the bones of the first guy who says "actually, I love lolita fashion"?
2nd-May-2012 08:19 pm (UTC)
It seems really stupid that he just posted his email. Requesting PMs would be infinitely safer
2nd-May-2012 10:24 pm (UTC)
Im getting the impression that the email is possibly just made for this posting as "Lolita_lover" isn't really the email that you want to send things to your university/ job/ family members. At least i hope.

I am glad of the new postings in this comm that the crazies that have posted to EGL over the past few days have caused... I missed you fantastic and literate people.
2nd-May-2012 08:19 pm (UTC)
I think we've broken a world record with this one:

Most women simultaneously creeped out in one go!
3rd-May-2012 08:58 am (UTC)
Holy crap. I am in Bristol and am very concerned that this guy (?) might make it to a meetup at some point >_>
4th-May-2012 03:51 am (UTC)
Do you have a private community that you all post meetup details on? Or do you use a private/members-only/locked group? That may be something to consider if you are really concerned.
4th-May-2012 03:50 am (UTC)
Honestly he reminds me of a boy in my school who has some form of crush on me, simply because he thinks I look like a princess and he is slightly mentally challenged and lives in a sort of fantasy where he owns his own kingdom or something similar. Anyway, once, someone told me that the clothes I wear are Lolita, and he now runs about spouting "I want a lolita girlfriend!"

He seems to really need to word things better. Also, some research would have helped. EGL is not a dating site, and EGL is an international community, so posting in a community that includes Bristol and close areas would have likely spouted more results...
5th-May-2012 06:33 pm (UTC)
He just looks like a guy who discovered the fashion by mistake, and he doesn't know how to approach/meet lolitas. Maybe I have too much of a tendency to trust people, but I'm not sure he did that to creep anyone out. This said, lots of people are creepy when it comes to meet lolitas, so I understand your reactions guys ;____;
10th-May-2012 03:20 am (UTC)
Ew. Sounds fetishy to me. :/ Do not want.
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